judge eat id Careful not to judge too quickly - the most vivid of spirits is not always obvious at first glance... but, stand near him after you have shed your tearful face and he will know you have been crying, he will say all the right words. You will feel at ease simply being near him. All this for someone you do not know. 060324 ... uoasI What am I supposed to think of her now? "Judge her next time" ~ Anon. 110101 ... tender_square i got ready in a bathroom that didn't belong to me. the space was a box without light; i left the door cracked to give a shard of sunshine so i could follow my eyes in the mirror and make out my own face. soap scum filmed the surfaces and i scrubbed them clean. i heard a muffled voice screaming a floor below and i crept partway down a flight of stairs to listen. my second sister was in a black robe. "are you calling for me?" i asked. "the phone has been ringing off the hook for you--it's the insurance company!" my sister shouted. "just let it ring, i'll deal with it later," i sighed. "you take care of this right now or i'm not driving you later," my sister threatened. i didn't let her push me around. "fine, go ahead and leave without me. i'll find another way!" 230524 ... kerry contrary to what some irritating people in my life may believe, working in mental health doesn't mean i have my shit together, or that i don't have days when i want to just tell my clients to go get a goddamn diary and quit whining, or that i don't resent people who don't deserve it, or that i don't judge people who wear sandals on the subway. 230728 what's it to you? who go blather from