first_impressions shower singer I make a bad first impression. It is only recently that I have noticed this, so I’m still working out what to make of it. On the up side, it acts as a natural filter, so that usually the kind of person who gets to know me is the kind that is wise enough not to set too much store by first impressions. On the down side, it means there are a LOT of people out there who don't think much of me. I have a friend who makes a great first impression. He invariably disappoints. 040805 ... judge jen I'm a very judgemental person. I have a few judgemental friends, but we all know that we would never bitch about each other to other people. Mainly because on judgement of other people, we decided never to get to know them. Is that bad? 041106 what's it to you? who go blather from