settling Soma Do we fall in love with people because of the way they look, the words they say, and the things they do; or do we fall in love with people for what we dumbly believe them to be? Be careful that you aren't handed a single flower, and you call it to be a bouquet. So, are we in love with them because we've deluded ourselves that they are the one we’ve been searching for? Are we just settling at the end of the day? 160412 ... unhinged i am always settling at the end of every day shamatha let the dirt settle to the bottom 160413 what's it to you? who go blather from