home_and_family Mahayana tendencies for in my life to be centered in the home and family attachments to my private and domestic habits are so strong that without them i could/can hardly endure within love focused matters, i can be emotional and gentle although the negative aspects warn myself against becoming overly preoccupied with trivial details of a psychological nature sometimes i try but cant let go- i am harsh & strict on myself & those the closest to me yet another negative tendency that i have is to flatter and to criticize carelessly, without regard for the other person's feeling 020714 ... three words other or home_and_family 060309 what's it to you? who go blather from