miscommunication Troubled Wanderer My sense of being unable to communicate effectively does not diminish. In my interactions with others, it seems like the only way to find any significant interpersonal meaning is to ignore words and actions, instead concentrating on the "vibe" or "energy" of the person or situation, always looking beyond the idle facts for something greater (or, at times, lesser). It often seems like most everyone else is satisfied with simple words and obligatory actions as effective communicative means. Am I missing something here? That's what I have asked myself daily for three decades. I am obviously missing something, thus my troubles. 060826 what's it to you? who go blather from