empowering SomeoneElse Whats really empowering to me is the fact that I no longer care about you. I don't care if you like me. I don't care if you call. I don't care if you go elsewhere for your physical pleasures. You really don't mean anything to me anymore. In fact, I am even beginning to dislike you, which gives me even more power within the context of our inter-personal dynamics. Ah yes, liberation from you, what a truly wonderful thing! 000425 ... edwarddebozo Is one of those horrifically over-used and misunderstood words like "community" that really mean nothing. Once i hear it on the radio/TV I turn th dial immeditaely. 040301 ... hsgatincamail sleep 040613 what's it to you? who go blather from