care_about_care_for just listening To care about someone means to be concerned about them, to have an interest in their existence and their happiness. To care for someone means to understand what they need and give it to them. Or at least to try to. It comes more easily to some than others. 060711 ... LS I tried but she couldn't make up her mind...there was no constant at anytime...something would make her happy one day and piss her off the next...and thats MY fault. 060711 what's it to you? who go blather from