all_have_been_judged sab and all have been found wanting 040914 ... otterpup and i know you mean this differently to how i think about it but i'm sick of judgement. i've become paranoid, like really paranoid, because of other peoples judgements. so i keep on hiding and hope for a day when we can all walk down the street and people give each other flowers. what a pipe dream. at least we have each other... 040914 ... lioness be firm in your strengths. act like everyone gives a damn. 040914 what's it to you? who go blather from