oldgirl Q Oldgirl once said "Days like today are becoming rarer, thank God. Perhaps the best advice one could give me is to be patient and get through it until I move on. Simple as that..." 000529 ... yolanda i don't know what's so old about her (or maybe i do) but it seems like she can take care of herself. she probably wouldn't have it any other way. she gratefully acknowledges the help from another, that being one part of the whole process. 000530 what's it to you? who go blather from