and_i_read_that sab and my first reaction is what would you do if i posted excatly the same words? i know you wouldnt like that. at all. then i wonder why you made that public then i wonder if you mean it for me, you know i'd see it when you put it there. then i just feel sad cos your still so tangled and you still sound bewildered about it all ah well never mind whatever whatever_whatever 041111 what's it to you? who go blather from