i_sit_and_wonder sab about the maybe million things i might have done differently so that maybe we wouldnt have ended up here. but its only a vague wondering because theres nothing that can be done now we can only learn for next time and i truly think i have somehow all the chairs are stacked all the lights are off and all the doors are locked and we're all hanging around uncomfortably in the car park scuffing our shoes in the dust sort of waiting for the moment when we all walk away 041214 what's it to you? who go blather from