reinforcements andru235 do you reinforce negatively, or positively? are you balanced, or do you prefer polarity? when you cast the first criticism, is it constructive or merely derisive? are any of us really exempt from the criticisms we lobby? "we dislike in others what we dislike in ourselves" [[ barring the extremities of, say, murder (etc), this seems to be true more often than not ]] we are all self-righteous, but few think of themselves so. 051128 what's it to you? who go blather from