optimism_pessimism_dilemma amy an optimist sees opportunity in difficulties, and a pessimist, vice versa. 000803 ... stan i must remember that! 000803 ... ItGirl I am optimistic that we may have something special. I am pessimistic about that somethings chances... 030719 ... ashmanzhou im not a pessimist really i just hope that everything goes bad so that i look good when it does 030719 what's it to you? who go blather from