developing_joy_______dualminded amy nada everybody does this in their own time, in their own way.... and i guess what friends are for is hinting and aiding each other through it all... sometimes, though, and especially in the written word, i feel like joy is secretly a kind of revenge. like i'm feeling revenge right now for being cooped up all winter. i am happy to feel this way, though. know what i mean? 100409 what's it to you? who go blather from