determined_reality REAListic optimIST determined_reality? stubbornness begets a self fulfilling prophecy the more you let go the less your reality is determined by yourself you have a bad habit of being unproductive with your personal time and shirking responsibility in this way you don't determine reality in your own best interest even as well as strangers might have you determined whom is the determinant of your reality? 050821 what's it to you? who go blather from