refrigerator
raze
i
caught
this
brutally
depressing
documentary
on
public
television
last
night
.
it
was
about
a
man
who
moved
back
home
to
guelph
to
help
his
father
and
his
other
brother
with
the
family
business
,
which
was
a
strip
club
.
the
father
was
a
fascinating, odious
character
.
he
was
an
obese
ocean
of
a
bully
.
the
odd
redeeming quality
would
swim
to
the
surface
every_so_often
,
only
to
be
swallowed
up
again
as
quickly
as
it
had
appeared.
it
was
clear
to
him
that
his
business
was
eroding
his
family
.
he
didn't
care
.
he
liked
being
the
big
boss
man
.
he
wasn't
going
to
let
that
get
away
from
him
.
while
he
was
stuffing
his
face
with
food
,
his
wife
,
the
daughter
of
holocaust survivors,
was
starving
herself
.
she
had
been
for
some
time
.
it
was
amazing
she
was
still
alive
.
she
was
a
flesh
-covered
middle
-aged
skeleton
.
her
arms
and
legs
were
frail twigs.
she
wore
wigs,
because
her
hair
was
falling
out
.
her
teeth
were
brittle
from
years
of
malnutrition.
all
the
abuse
her
body
had
suffered
was
etched
deep
into
her
sunken
face
.
she
did
everything
for
everyone
else
.
she
was
an
afterthought
even
to
herself
.
the
son
who
came
home
tried
to
help
.
there
was
only
so
much
he
could
do
.
her
husband
wouldn't
pay
for
a
single
therapy
session.
he
pulled
out
the
old
"
you
can't
help
someone
who
doesn't
want
to
be
helped"
line
when
he
didn't
have
a
clue
what
his
wife
wanted
.
his
idea
of
encouragement
was
telling
her
she
could
move
to
toronto
and
kill
herself
there
if
she
wanted
to
.
that
way
he
wouldn't
have
to
be
around
when
it
happened
.
some
people
seem
to
have
been
born
without
the
ability
to
differentiate
between
"
tough
love
"
and
cruelty
.
her
husband
did
do
one
thing
for
her
at
the
end
of
the
film
,
to
show
how
much
he
cared.
he
bought
her
a
new
fridge
.
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