electric raze "i think whoever_discovered_water wasn't a fish. and i think when we're in a thing, we don't see it. you want to test that theory? the next time you're out with a couple who've been together for a while and it seems like they maybe got in a fight or they're just kind of being impatient with each other at the table, say to them, 'so tell me about how you met. tell me the story.' and watch everything on their faces change. they go back to that place. even someone who went through a horrible divorce, if you can get them to go to that place and talk to you about that time ... you know, i have to tell you something. when i was a kid, like every kid, you have the fantasy of if you were invisible, what would you do? i have this fantasy that if i could be invisible, i have about eight clients where i'd like to sneak into their house and find their wedding album. i know it's in the attic somewhere or something. i would love to see what it looked like when these people loved each other. because they are weaponized against each other now, and they're trying to kill each other, taking every secret, ever intimacy, everything, and we're just seeing people at their ugliest. at their worst. and there's something in me, just the thought, that you guys at some point — at some point you were like, 'there's seven point three billion people in the world, and you're the one. you're the one i want to be with, and smell, and touch.' that feeling. we all know that feeling of the electricity of another person." — james sexton 230811 what's it to you? who go blather from