congruent_triangles unhinged power dynamics in a co-dependent relationship make the rescuer of a victim into a persecutor transforming a co-dependent relationship into healthy one turns a rescuer into a coach so that the victim is empowered rather than rescued (maybe? yes, probably. i have seen this play out in my own life. as soon as i stopped rescuing and enabling him and started telling him what he needed to hear our relationship shifted) 180730 what's it to you? who go blather from