transient raze when people are passing through your city for a whirlwind visit, it would be nice if they put some small amount of thought into planning or sorting their situation out beforehand, instead of leaving you with the job of setting everything up for them at the last minute while juggling your own life and responsibilities in an effort to accommodate they who give no thought to what is convenient for anyone but themselves. if i ever visit your city, i'm going to make sure i have a place to sleep and a reliable method of transportation before i even start heading your way. there's a difference between being a free spirit and just not giving a shit. 130710 ... amy adaptability I did that to someone once. Was it 2003, maybe 2004? Was really ill, holding on by fingernails, dramatically speaking. Had multiple reasons for being ill and wanted to discuss some of them. I mean it wasn't at all about the city-visit it was about talking... I'm pretty sure I probably did talk. Some. Was too ill to register if I was heard or responded to. And now i feel guilty and selfish about it. Thanks raze! But a weekend might have been cut out of their busy life and as for me, it's a decade and counting, turns out. I was trying to improve things. Eh God and Job and Tough Luck. I'm fine w leaving it up to peace angels to make the selfishness judgment call... if i was too busy talking to aliens to secure my would-be life, is it gonna be an excuse? I'm being unpleasant when I'm actually a little more settled and moved forward than I be sounding. 130710 what's it to you? who go blather from