incidental deb And so it all comes down to incidentals, the last 10 years of my life... down to details. Who gets what, who lives where, how will all this work...? Details, at least I am good at those... I compartmentalize it all, put it all in its proper place, file away and close the drawer. Is it really as simple as all that...? 100917 what's it to you? who go blather from