sexy somebody climbing out of his bed sunrise panties and camisole remnants of last nights lust shower in mind leftover makeup hair all a mess, of coarse hes still sleeping 031024 ... belly fire I never thought I was but seeing myself like that... wow 040430 ... belly fire Did I ever think that I could fool myself into feeling something that I'm not? UNsexy. 040604 ... cocoon im not. dont think i could ever be considered so. 040604 ... thunderbuck ram Being sexy doesn't need to be obvious. It's often what sparks between two people for no reason that anyone else can see, such as voice, accent, tone, mannerism. Obvious sexy usually isn't real and is manufactured or created to fool and tease, and ultimately disappoints. (And supporting Arsenal is sexy - oh yes it is ;)!!!) 041029 ... also not the same as pretty 110528 ... ovenbird Is not a thing I’ve ever considered myself. I once had a boyfriend tell me that I do not naturally possess, or signal, sexiness, and that some other women move and exist in a way that is innately sexy, but I am not one of them. Which I guess is a good thing because I have little interest in inviting a sexualized gaze. Trying to act or dress in a way that is deemed conventionally sexy makes me feel extremely uncomfortable. So, for the most part, I don’t do it. I was once lamenting not having a “sexy” outfit to wear to an event that called for such things and someone who loves me said, “your sexiest outfit is being exactly who you are,” and that is definitely a contender for most_romantic_thing_ever_said_to_you. When I think of how I want to exist in the world, being seen as sexy doesn’t really factor in. I want to be thoughtful and focused, gentle and kind, intellectual and empathetic, and if someone is attracted to me, I want it to be for those reasons. I tend to shy away from other people who are blatantly or conventionally sexy as well. It's just not what calls to me. I used to want this part of me to be different. But I don't anymore. 251103 ... nr i much prefer things that are weirdly_sexy 251103 what's it to you? who go blather from