manipulative nr huh. i'm surprised this isn't a page yet. ... that's all for now. 160314 ... unhinged after years, the guilt trips have ceased to work. i will always hope you are ok but i don't need to share details anymore. my shared details have been used against me one too many times. 160315 ... raze he sent me this long email telling me how bad he felt about being a neglectful friend. as if he ever was my friend in the first place. i had to read it twice before i noticed he didn't once ask me how i was doing or what was new with me. it was all about him. the message hidden behind the words was, "come back and let me use you again." i've played that game before. i'm not playing anymore. 220607 ... nr "you're not responsible for his feelings when you express your needs. when he acts self-pitying and makes you feel bad or guilty, it's manipulative," rhia said. "i don't think he does it on purpose," jane said. "it doesn't matter," rhia replied. 250504 what's it to you? who go blather from