ok kali my answer to everything. "i am consciously trying to be more cautious here, though." ok. "sometimes i think we should not talk." "maybe we should stop for a while." ok. "come and see me." ok! "i don't think that i am going to fall in love with you" ok. "when i am with you, i am not content or comfortable." ok. "and i am, often times, thinking of my boyfriend. and that is unfair to all of us." ok. "say that we are going to cool it." ok. "you don't have to come down anymore" ok. it's not ok. it never is. 010904 ... Q Oh, yes! Virtually! 020324 ... nom if anyone says anything i'll_just_turn_off 060208 what's it to you? who go blather from