grudges no reason sometimes i feel sorry for people who hold grudges for extended periods of time. it can't be a fun way to be, and i feel like it's not worth it. you never know what could have been going on with the grudged-against person at the time, and people also change. not to say people should always be forgiven, but grudges seem like the opposite of open-mindedness. they just don't seem important in the grand scheme of things. 140417 ... raze i don't judge any of the things you say here or the decisions you make. but hey, thanks. good to know my feelings aren't valid in the eyes of someone who wasn't there and doesn't know anything about the situation that created the grudge. good to know. 140417 ... no reason this actually wasn't referring to you at all. but i can see how it might have seemed that way. 140417 ... no reason i did see the words, and they reminded me of other things. 140417 what's it to you? who go blather from