emily_haines raze "the idea that we have this attitude toward the good fortune of being able to live a life and [treat that as] something that drags us down is such a backwards way of looking at life, and i find it rude to yourself and the luxury and good fortune and privilege we have to live where we do, and all the million reasons that we aren't dead. there is no eventually. because it's now. my mother, she's in her eighties. whenever i call her, i say, 'how are you doing, mom?' she says, 'unbelievable. incredible.' and she always says to me, 'you have to trust me. everyone tells you that life gets worse and worse. only now are threads of what i was doing then making sense to me.' and we're all told to fear that time. but she says, 'it's crazy. don't listen.'" 230330 what's it to you? who go blather from