commitment no reason even if commitment doesn't always come naturally, i can ALWAYS commit to making a plan. i don't understand and have a pretty low tolerance for flakiness. 130325 ... nr yep, still don't understand this, but apparently it's a common theme. maybe people try to be chill and laid-back and not come on too strong. but i still don't see the issue with "you're free then? i'm free then too. let's hang out." it's not like it's a commitment to get married or something. 151218 ... unhinged but something better might come along. so you asking to hang out makes you clingy. i also don't see the problem with asking someone if they want to hang out or giving people you want to see again your phone number. it's not that i want to get married; i just found you interesting and want to talk to you some more. damn people. i don't abide flakiness very well either. this manboy i was writing music with started to ditch our plans to get together to practice and write songs together. so i stopped going to his work to make sure we made plans to practice. i haven't seen him in weeks. i believed him when he said he would make it work, find the time to practice, but somehow if i am not the one initiating or putting in the effort, we don't practice. i think he is dating someone. so the commitment i thought he said he had to our project is up in smoke. i'm not surprised, but i am hurt. 151218 ... nr it strikes me as odd when people show interest in talking to you and hanging out with you (ie they initiate) but still don't want to commit to a plan. i guess they're keeping you around to keep their options open or something. or maybe they don't want to seem clingy. i dunno. either way, it's annoying. 151219 ... unhinged very annoying 151220 what's it to you? who go blather from