pacing silentbob Therapy 011015 ... nom and outpacing 051012 ... cocoon up and down up and down I used to do this all the time 051013 ... nom "pace yourself" my horoscope said i had to laugh 051219 ... tender_square she said that i was regressing after each visit. she mentioned being surprised that i didn't stand up for myself in my marriage when that's not what my personality was like as a child. i said that maybe i didn't raise a stink about things because i'd fought so hard to be with him. she reminded me of an anecdote where she had pulled me into her bedroom for a private conversation about my brother years before. her and i were gone for five minutes with the door shut. my husband was pacing the hall outside. she said he could never let me out of his sight, he was always on edge. we had fought about it after, he and i. he was sure the conversation was about him and pressed for details. it's true that my mother wanted to say many things about my husband to me and our dynamic, but if i wasn't willing to see them for myself, what was the point in raising the issues? 230604 what's it to you? who go blather from