me_to_we nr i've known her since first year university, and she's married now with a new baby. i told her about a netflix show i was watching, and she said "we still need to watch that." i asked how she was doing, and she said "we're doing ok." i've never spoken like this and it always throws me a bit. even when with someone, i'll say "[person's name] and i." i wonder when things turn from me to we for people. 211010 ... tender square (i totally am guilty of "we-ing" today, but honestly it was more out of laziness because i didn't feel like writing "michael and i," ha! your post has definitely got me thinking, nr, about the necessity of preserving individualism in the face of coupledom.) 211010 what's it to you? who go blather from