wise_words nr you don't owe anyone anything. 211214 ... raze from someone on blue who didn't use a recognizable name: "and maybe hope realizes that sometimes ghosts are just bad memories." 220829 ... ovenbird People say that love is rare. I am not so sure. What is rare is something even more desirable. Understanding. There is no point in being loved if you are not understood. They are simply loving an idea of you they have in their mind. They are in love with love. They are in love with their loving. To be understood, and not only that, but to be understood and appreciated once understood. That is what matters. --Matt Haig 250723 what's it to you? who go blather from