learning_opportunity leif I'm genuinely concerned that I have a revolving door for the people in my life--all of whom I consider learning opportunities. And EVERYONE must pass through this door. It's like my only capacity for interaction with others is if they use this door and no other. I'm not even sure that there is another door for them to use... Quite frankly, this is incredibly terrifying to me. Is that why I'm divorced? Is that why I think I'll always end everything that begins? What do you do when you think you're designed to be temporary... 140826 ... flowerock a living catalyst... leave them/it all better than you found it, be permanant by changing them for the better and enabling them to do the same for others. ripple_effect. though I am not sure how you and your heart are supposed to feel about it... there must be something good for you too. Maye another revolving door that fits between your revolutions, revolving together infinitely. 140826 what's it to you? who go blather from