haunted_houses nomadic Someone knocked the pillars off of the haunted house today... I found a crack in the pavement too. I wonder if we should fix it? Nah, why bother. There's a nice look to cracked pavement anyway. Kids really like haunted houses. 091023 ... ovenbird I need you to hear me, she says. I need you to really listen, without deflecting or interjecting or defending yourself or trying to fix anything. I need you to understand what I’m feeling so that you can understand who I am. I need you to hear and know what is happening inside my head. It’s scary in there, he says to her. I know. And that’s why I feel so unloved. Because everyone is too afraid to enter this haunted house, even when the door is open and the monsters are occupied and the ghosts are napping. No one wants to come in. And it’s so, so lonely. 260926 what's it to you? who go blather from