gawker
tender_square
a
few
days
ago
she
sent
a
well
-meaning
message
with
good
wishes
for
the
new
year
.
she
wondered
if
the
two
of
us
might
connect
in
future
, adding
that
she
often
thought
of
me
.
i
took
twenty
-four
hours
to
respond
,
writing
that
i
was
in
the
midst
of
big
life
changes
—divorce
and
moving
back
to
my
country
of
origin. "
it's
the
end
of
an
era,"
i
wrote
,
in
reference
to
leaving
a
city
that
has
come
to
define
much
of
my
adult
life
.
i've
been
doing
this
back
-and-forth
between
-the-borders
thing
for
five
months
now
,
i'd
realized
,
with
more
to
go
.
the
longer
it
takes
for
her
to
respond
(
and
what
exactly
am
i
hoping
for
from
her
,
pity
? acknowledgement?
surprise
?)
the
more
i
feel
like
she's
gawking
at
the
scene
of
an
accident
,
either
too
stunned
to
say
anything
of
comfort
or
thanking
god
it
isn't
her
.
230120
what's it to you?
who
go
blather
from