separation tender_square “maybe you should consider taking a week back home on your own for a trial separation,” her therapist suggested. “yeah, but how could i ever get him to agree to that? taking time apart isn’t going to make us closer.” “no, it won’t and it may not at all. but at least you will have clarity about what you want.” she let the idea shawl around her shoulders. “think about what it would be like to only have to take care of yourself and for him to do the same,” her therapist said. “what would that feel like?” 220823 what's it to you? who go blather from