insecure no reason he asked me if i was insecure, and i thought about it and said no, i don't think so. i can get disappointed in myself, and i know my faults, but i'm not necessarily insecure about them. i'm not good at taking criticism, but i think that's more to do with being sensitive than being insecure. i wonder sometimes if i'm being too sensitive, and it's possible that i am and i know people may not mean things the way they come out, but i realize i would never be so flippantly critical (i'm not saying this in a holier-than-thou way; it's just not something my brain would think to do, and i'd feel guilty hurting people). and i also realize the people criticizing happen to be people who seem pretty insecure. sensitive person + insecure person = danger? 121214 ... cocoon Huh. Well, thats a first. 161221 ... nr "everyone else seems to find relationships so easy. they don't worry all the time that theirs will end." "what's leading you to stay in something you're worried will end?" "i just feel like that in all relationships. i've had the rug pulled out from under me each time." "have you every looked into what patterns might cause that?" "...." 250405 what's it to you? who go blather from