for_you_all_the_love amy in red for me? the money. or, at least a goodly chunk is about that. would be good to have a healthy brain and ability to get and give money appropriately. not because money is money (i know, right, who talks about money?), but because it is how we can healthify, to a certain extent, our appreciation of each other with lower impact than that God, I love you and that's it kind of way. but i'm not saying that God, I love you and that's it is completely wrong, it's just a little fleeting and not-necessarily stabilizing. yes, i know i shouldn't even bring up "money". but i kinda think i'm on a very very long cycle where i think in a fairly practical manner. if something looks unaffordable for me, i think i will not give the go-ahead out of sheer self-preservation. that's ok. it can be many many moons before i can afford to see people who tend to drain the resource, again. for some reason, this has something to do with facebook. i find it hard to believe that everybody on everybody's friend lists is an affordable friend. mind you, i don't mean to judge people, it's just that i find a lot of rates in the unaffordability range. 120202 what's it to you? who go blather from