enthusiasm tender_square "when we first started, you brought a lot of an enthusiasm to our relationship. so much so that it was too much for me at times," he said. "and i think that enthusiasm carried us for several years, and because of that, i thought it was always going to be there." he continued, "when it stopped last summer, it was so dramatic; i could tell you didn't want to be around me." "i got burnt out," she said. "and i think you're right that we coasted on my enthusiasm for a long time, and i don't know if you invested in enough of that from your side. it's not an endless resource; i know i have to do a better job of recognizing when i'm near empty." 221208 what's it to you? who go blather from