amnesia tender_square of course she acts like she never said to mom, "you ruined our relationship; you're dead to me." it's a selective forgetting where she never has to apologize for her abuse. she's reaching out to mom for help now, and shouldn't she be grateful to have her daughter back? my sister called it quits with her loser of a boyfriend for the fifth time, after he wouldn't let her sleep following a fourteen-hour shift. he kept entering the bedroom and waking her, saying it was his house. and so mom helped her pack her shit friday, loaded the van, and drove her back to her own apartment in essex. i give it a week before she goes back to him. 230130 what's it to you? who go blather from