petty epitome of incomprehensibility Pretty if you take the R out. Stingy little word, and fun to say. 140206 ... tender_square lately, she'd been complaining about him and how relieved she was that their union was ending. some days, she felt like she was seeing him for the first time and wondered what it was that caused her to fall in love with him. then, the regret of those thoughts troubled her; wasn't she criticizing herself by extension for having loved him? wasn’t she effectively saying there was a problem with her judgment? was he always this way—obsessive and myopic, lazy and arrogant, trapped in a victim mindset with big dreams but trouble realizing them—or did it happen over the slow accumulation of years? she used to believe his excuses, and parrot them like a pr rep to the people in her life. 230110 what's it to you? who go blather from