take_advantage epitome of incomprehensibility You do something nice-ish for people and then they expect you to do it again. Then again, I don't blame them. It's basic pattern recognition. Also, I'd be a hypocrite not to say I've taken advantage of someone's ability to help me in some way. Today I was running late, so I asked Dad to drive me to the bus stop - which he did, through the unseasonable unreasonable snow. But I wish there was some reciprocity. Here's the math joke: if someone's kind to you, be 1 divided by kind to them. What can I do for Dad that's 1/kind? I don't know. Pay it forward. the_supper_man summary_buddy 240404 what's it to you? who go blather from