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nr this book is better than i thought it would be, considering how common the subject has become. one thing that aziz ansari said that stuck with me was how, usually, the person you most want to be with is the one that just makes everything the most fun. the one who you can be doing mundane things with, but their presence alone makes those things fun.

it made me think of other_you, which wasn't surprising. but then i started think, well, what if you were with someone like that but you didn't completely trust them?
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nr i guess it's just assumed that if you're with someone you connect with and want to be with, you'll trust them. but maybe that shouldn't be assumed. 160120
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