midlife_crisis tender_square “i don’t know how to ask this…i don’t want the question to upset you,” he said. “go ahead.” “do you think that all this could be a midlife crisis?” “absolutely,” she said. “that’s crossed my mind many times, but i didn’t know if that was accurate because technically i’m not near midlife yet. coming close to turning 40 makes me feel like this is what it’s about.” “i just didn’t know if you would find that insulting, because there are people that do.” “i mean, maybe those are the people who aren’t really conscious about why they’re acting the way they are; which is not to say i have it all figured out, just that i’ve been paying a lot of attention to it.” “it just feels like this whole thing is bigger than you and me,” he said. “oh, it is. i feel like i’m trying to determine what i want the next half of my life to look like,” she reasoned. “that’s why this is so important.” 220928 what's it to you? who go blather from