feast_or_famine belly fire They say you can't choose your family... They continue to haunt my daily life in the form of vague emails, calls with no message and several unopened birthday gifts. What will married life be like with no aunts, uncles or cousins. I never thought it would come to this, that I would count them out of my life so completely. My life grows ever smaller and yet more and more is demanded from me. 060817 what's it to you? who go blather from