conscientious tender_square she asked him why he had left her with most, if not all, of the housework and yardwork. she had taken on more responsibilities when he got injured four summers ago; she didn't press him about the division of labour when he was suffering for the past three years. "were you ever going to take it back from me?" she finally asked. he claimed it was her conscientiousness; she was so good about noticing, about doing, and she had her own systems he could not comply with. he hadn't backed away from anything; she just took it all on before he could generate any motivation toward movement. 221114 what's it to you? who go blather from