attractive raze when you're comfortable in your own skin, and you don't feel a need to impress or call attention to yourself. you just are who you are. you can listen as well as you can speak, and when you open your mouth, you have something to say. you're honest. you care about things. you know how to laugh. you have dreams. you don't think you know it all. you want to go on learning, and seeing, and thinking about what you see. that's attractive. it also helps if you like cats. 130304 ... Pilgrim I hope this works 130305 ... n o m beauty is in the eye of the beholder. i don't find liking cats helps / i don't find it attractive. 130326 what's it to you? who go blather from