stayed raze "you know, there's a saying," she said. "even a worm turns. when i got older, my husband said to me, 'you've changed.' and i said, 'you're damn right i have. i don't put up with your shit anymore.' but in my day, you stuck it out. you didn't leave no matter how unhappy you were. oh, he knew i wanted to. i was going to go, too. vows be damned. but then he got sick. and you don't desert a sinking ship. so i stayed. i didn't know he was going to hold on for five more bloody years." 230221 what's it to you? who go blather from