spiritual_death belly fire As I was cleaning up after preparing dinner I heard another one of Oprah's "aha moments" from the tv in the living room: "We die a spiritual death everytime we let someone abuse our self worth. Women who let men take advantage of their sexuality give away a little more of their soul each day." They were talking about teen girls but it made sense to me, it validated my mistakes, it made things clearer, it was an aha moment. Just like that crazy lady who lectures about cosmic mops. It was appropriate for today. 040115 what's it to you? who go blather from