settling no reason is not grounds for congratulations 090929 ... nr i can see why people do this. sometimes it's easier to convince yourself you're satisfied enough to avoid the uncertainty and loneliness that inevitably occurs before you get what really makes you happy. if you ever do. 220626 ... nr ha. i don't remember who i was referring to in that post from 2009, but now i'm wondering. 220626 what's it to you? who go blather from