responsibility amy the rock one doesn't want to turn over. but oh is it nice to feel time stretch all around, and know that people have been working like this, forever. 030105 ... tender_square "i think this connects with something that you said to me earlier, which was 'if we make other people responsible for meeting our needs as opposed to meeting them ourselves, we are essentially not taking responsibility for our wants and desires.' and now you're also saying that because i refuse to own or know who my shadow is that it's becoming a projection, i am using the opposite sex as a screen to show me the darkness in myself, which again, is me absolving myself of an important responsibility." 230704 what's it to you? who go blather from