guidance jane i just want someone to tell me that what i'm doing is right. 100816 ... cr0wl i know you well enough to know that what you choose is right. go ahead margaux. 100816 ... gja amazing how a nonchoice can be a choice and be the path of least resistance and end up being the best path to follow 100817 ... lostgirl you'll never know unless you try. (trust_yourself) simple mathematics dictates this: the more decisions you make, the better your chances of making more correct choices.... (and though the 'gut' isn't always on_the_money, listen to it anyway....) 100817 what's it to you? who go blather from