fearful_avoidant_attachment nr "They see their relationships from the working model that you need to go towards others to get your needs met, but if you get close to others, they will hurt you." welp. 211030 ... nr "They often have fears of being abandoned but also struggle with being intimate. They may cling to their partner when they feel rejected, then feel trapped when they are close." 211030 ... kerry a defense mechanism, a pattern, and no wonder why. easier to survive when everything is kept at arm's length. 211030 ... unhinged . 211030 what's it to you? who go blather from